Xander loves to go out when everyone else goes out. Frequently only part of the family will leave the house for whatever reason. Even though he hasn't been invited or asked to go along, Xander invariably goes and gets his shoes and coat whenever someone leaves the house. Or if they're not easily accessible, he says "shoes" and "coat." He gets very mad too, if you tell him he can't go. He's perfected the pouty big-lip sad face.